Not all henna artists are created equal!

Let me ask you this....
Do you care about what goes on your skin? 
Would you like a beautiful henna stain on your wedding day? 
If the answer is yes to both, then make sure you do this first.

Do your research.
Just like you made sure you like everything about the photographer, make-up artist, décor make sure to do your research about the henna artist.
Visit their photo gallery (website and/or social media). If they don't have any....🚩

Make sure they have henna stain pictures in their portfolio.  📷

Ask questions

• Do they use homemade, natural henna paste? The correct answer is 'yes'. 👍
• What are the ingredients of their paste? If they can't provide this info, that's a 🚩 red flag.
• What packages do they offer for hands and feet - coverage & 💲💲💲?
• How long does the henna application take?
• Do they work solo or with a team? It's common for artists in the USA to work solo for bridal henna.
• Do they travel? 🚗 If they drive themselves that's a plus! 👍
• How far can they travel for a bridal henna? Artists may have a limit about how far they travel from home.
• What are the travel charges? This covers gas, wear & tear of their vehicle and time.
• What's their booking process? Pro henna artists require a booking fee (retainer) to hold your date.

I'm sure these questions will help you select the best bridal henna artist for you!
Make sure to let me know by commenting below if you tried this.
Leave me 👍 below if this was helpful.

-Manasi
Bridal Henna Specialist, Atlanta GA

Believe me when I say...
Nothing is more frustrating for the bride and the mehndi artist than henna mess-ups.
And cancan can be one of the main culprits!
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Want me to elaborate? Read till the end for the alternatives.

• A cancan is a stiff net. It's attached to the underskirt to give a flared shape to a skirt or lehenga.
• Since it is very stiff, it's very hard to fold.
• A henna (mehendi artist) artist needs unrestricted access to the bride's feet and ankles.
• A skirt or lehenga without cancan can be easily pinned out of the way.
• However, most cancans are extremely stiff and are very hard to move or pin out of the way.
• Even if it's somehow pinned away, it tends to come undone and brush against the wet henna at the ankles.
• As you can imagine, this makes it very hard on your henna artist to do their job.
• Not to mention it's frustrating for the bride because the feet design keeps getting messed up despite her best efforts.

But fret not!
If you a bride-to-be take notes!
I have few options for you that'll help you and your henna artist avoid this issue completely!

• For custom made lehengas, request a more comfortable cancan.
• If your lehenga came with the stiff cancan attached, have it taken out. (psst... can be simply trimmed off)
• Order a cancan skirt separately that is not stiff instead. Several options available online.

Save this for yourself for future reference.
Share this with a friend who is actively planning her mehndi night.
Save yourself and/or your friend AND their henna artist from having to face this.

As always, I'm here to answer any questions!

Short answer: Don't do it!

Long answer:
Here's what happens, from a bridal henna specialist with 13 yrs of experience. 
✨You plan your henna during an event.
Most probably on your Mehndi night. ✨

👍🏽The upside?
Your guests get to watch you get henna done live.
They also get their henna done for the wedding. That's why it is called a Mehndi night!

👎🏽The downside?
Every aunty and all your friends in the room want to greet you - followed by hugs, pats, kisses.
Which results in...
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You moving. This affects the henna application greatly.
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Your mehndi artist tries to fix the design or may be stops the application so as to not mess it up.
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This takes time.
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Then there are pictures taken.
More people around you which highly increases the risk of someone accidently brushing against your beautiful bridal henna.
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Your henna artist graciously fixes all the mess ups despite all the unwanted interruptions.
After all, how the design turns out in the end falls on your henna artist and not the bride.
Not to mention adding more time to the application.
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This means the bride has to sit still even longer for application.
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To add salt to the wound, everyone starts having fun around you but you are stuck with getting henna done.

👉🏽Makes sense?
Let me know below!

Wedding planning can definitely be an overwhelming experience.
Let's help you by asking you some key questions.

Ask yourself this to help prioritize your favorite wedding vendors.
Question 1
Every time you think about your ideal wedding, an image may pop up into your mind. What do you see?
Is it how beautifully you are dressed up? Is the venue and beautiful décor, or is the pictures and videos of a beautiful wedding?
Note this down.

Question 2
Do you have a Pinterest board of bridal henna designs and/or the mandap décor?
What is the Pinterest board about? 
Note this down.

Question 3
Is there something without which your dream wedding won't feel complete?
If you don’t have them as you wanted them, would your dream wedding still come true?
That’s a tell-tale sign of you where your priority lies.
Note this down too.

Look at your notes. 
Did the answers surprise you?
Maybe deep inside you already knew, but now it's crystal clear.

If this was helpful in any way, please let me know!
Whether  you’re  feeling  overwhelmed or determined, discover more  about bridal henna at HennafyMe.com

​Hi friends, if you are feeling overwhelmed right now...I can totally relate to your situation. 
At one time you are looking forward to meeting and celebrating with all your friends, family and colleagues, not to mention all the awesome wedding festivities...and within a few days everything has gone topsy-turvy.

No worries, friend. I'm here for you.
Below you'll find answers to your questions and help gain some clarity.

Your most burning question probably is:
Should I cancel or postpone or just have a very private wedding?

Postpone
For everyone involved, the best option is to postpone. It is less inconvenient than canceling the wedding altogether. Letting everyone know via phone calls or emails (with a read receipt) will guarantee that everyone has received the news and the new dates.

Cancel
If you feel that there is no choice but to cancel, then I recommend  that you immediately inform your planner, all the vendors, any hotel bookings, travel arrangements for honeymoon, etc. Depending upon how close you are to the wedding date, you may be able to get few refunds. 
Make sure to call all the invitees to let them know about the cancellation. Have a family member help you with this.

Private ceremony
Finally, there's  the option of having a very private ceremony. I'd suggest to doing things just like you've canceled the wedding...with the addition of modified preparations for the now-much smaller wedding.

We'll lose the deposit paid to wedding vendors if we cancel. Is it okay to ask for a refund?

Here's the bad news.
Yes, there is a high chance that you'll lose those funds.

First, I'd suggest going through your copy of the signed Contract with each vendor. Check their refund policy.
Next, check if the vendor has already done any work. For example; wedding planners start  planning everything several months before the wedding day. Your henna artist probably has already drafted out and finalized the bridal designs with you. You probably had consultations with the vendors which were included in the bridal services. 

Also take into consideration that the Wedding industry is one of the worst hit by Covid-19. Your vendors most probably have many clients asking for a refund, which could financially cripple any small business. 

Lastly, while taking all the above factors into consideration, contact the vendor.
Yes, it's okay to ask for a refund from your vendors. Most vendors will work with you. These are unprecedented times and we all are in this together.

What about my custom bridal lehenga? We can't have a wedding and I have no use for it anymore.

These are unprecedented times, agreed. But weddings get canceled for other reasons too.
Contact your designer/boutique to check if they have started the work on it. 
If there is no way to cancel it, check with the store. See if the boutique can put it up for sale at a discounted price. Out of which they keep a percentage you both agree upon.
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I'd love to know if this helped you in any way. Did you take a different route that worked better for you may be? I hope you'll share your experience with me!

-Manasi
ManasisArt 
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